A Lifetime of Helping Others

Phil Lawicki is only 32, but he has spent much of his life helping others. It began when he was 13 or 14 and would meet his sister Jennifer, who has severe cerebral palsy, at the school bus. Both his parents worked, so he would come straight home after school, help get her off the bus and into the house, and sometimes even make her dinner.

“I just love her to pieces,” says Phil, who describes himself as very family-oriented. He even repeated his senior year of high school when his family had to move in order to get Jennifer into a safer high school. “I would do it again in a minute for her,” he says.

He did eventually head off to a technical college in Plainwell, outside Kalamazoo. However, a streak of bad luck combined with the recession meant he struggled to find a job he could keep. He needed something to do and dropped off a resume at the Livonia YMCA.

“Julie (volunteer coordinator Julie Allen) called, and it literally saved my life,” he says. He’s an important part of the Y now, helping with laundry and some maintenance tasks. “I started two weeks before Christmas last year, and I have never been happier,” he says. For her part, Julie says “When I thank Phil for his attitude and dedication, he thanks me.”

Phil still helps care for his sister, and enjoys watching hockey and working with electronics in his spare time. He’s also quite likely the only volunteer at the Livonia Y to have served lunch to Bill Clinton.

He took a cooking class in high school, as, he admits with a smile, a way to meet girls. During his reelection campaign, Clinton visited his school and had lunch there. Phil, with his outgoing personality, was selected to greet the president and serve him lunch. Clinton shook his hand and tipped Phil a dollar. “I told everyone, hey, he puts his pants on one leg at a time just like us,” he says, adding, “The difference is, when he’s doing it he’s running the country.”

Phil has found the Y a very welcoming place. “I love it…it’s a great place, and I encourage everyone to join,” he says.

 

 

 

Trainer Helps Clients Get Strong (In All Ways)

Healthy living is a core mission of the Y, and that means healthy living for everybody of all ages, shapes and sizes. At the Y,  it’s part of the culture that people taking their first tentative steps off the couch feel as comfortable as people who are running marathons and bench-pressing their body weight.

People like Lindsay Collis embody that philosophy. Lindsay is the group fitness coordinator and a master trainer at the Livonia Y. In just a short time she has already made a huge impact on the lives of her clients and class members.

One member, Jonathan, had a special connection with Lindsay. Jonathan had lost 70 pounds through diet alone, but knew he needed to exercise to meet his weight goals. Like many people in this economy, paying for personal training was sometimes difficult, so Lindsay made sure he knew how to get the most impact from his workouts between sessions.  Even on her own time, she would encourage Jonathan to challenge himself. She would sometimes ask him to join her for her own workout sessions. “I told him to come work out with me, and he got to see me getting all beaten up and out of breath and exhausted myself,” she said. “I wouldn’t make him do anything I wasn’t willing to do.” Another time she saw him walking on the treadmill and took him outside to run a mile with her, something that had been a longtime goal. He’d send her a text when he hit a milestone with his workouts or had a great weigh-in.

“It’s people like him that make me love my job,” Lindsay says.

Eventually, Jonathan lost 30 more pounds, but the best part for him was that he could play with his children without getting tired. He calls Lindsay one of the most influential people in his life.

Recently, another member emailed her, sharing how delighted she was when she caught a glimpse of herself in the mirror and noticed defined muscles in her torso for the first time. “I can’t do everything (in her fitness class) all the time yet, but I am getting there and most importantly, you make me want to keep trying!” she wrote Lindsay.

Lindsay has been a personal trainer for a little more than two years now. She was drawn to it after realizing that she enjoyed fitness classes and that other people often asked her for workout advice and encouragement. She joined the Livonia Y about five months ago and says the  emphasis on family and community is one of the things she loves about it. “At the Y, we’re a team and we work well together. We help each other, and we all want to succeed together, not all for ourselves.”